Skip Boring Questions

Skip Boring Questions

What’s wrong with boring questions?

In my opinion, boring questions are energetically flat.

Dating is supposed to be FUN!
Fun requires ENERGY and POSITIVITY.

💖 When a positive vibe is felt between people – that’s when they begin to like each other and bond.

This is why we need to skip the boring questions OR make them more FUN.

Here’s the great news.

You’re going to have the upper-hand and better understanding (in most social situations now) simply because you’re doing this training.
You’re becoming a speed-dating (quick connections) superstar.
And perhaps you’ll even become the driver of conversations; a leader.

The problem is that most other people will likely still be on auto-pilot in social situations.
You’ll notice this more now…

They’ll ask boring questions.

How can you answer boring questions without being on auto-pilot???

🧠 By being mindful
🗨️ By giving intriguing answers
🗨️ By offering specific answers

Here’s some suggestions / examples for answering auto-pilot questions.

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SPEED DATING ANALYSIS

I learn a lot by watching over the footage from my participation in FIlterOff dates.
I can see/hear what’s done well and what I can improve on.
I’m grateful for the app’s feature for allowing me to easily meet people to practice dating conversation with.

In the video below I’ve marked in most cases when something stood out as a good strategy and when an element of conversation could be improved.
Use this video analysis to start thinking more about the strategies you are using…. especially the questions you are asking.

IT’S TIME TO PRACTISE

Download the worksheet and answer the auto-pilot questions mindfully.

DOWNLOAD WORKSHEET >>

Keep this worksheet handy when you’re attending your FIlterOff (or in-person) social events for a quick reminder.
Your non-standard answers WILL help you to stand out from the crowd.

When all goes to plan:

✅ You’re mindful answers will create EXCITEMENT in someone you’re talking to.
✅ They’ll create a sense of FUN and POSITIVITY
✅ The people you meet will want to learn more about you….
✅ They’ll be ATTRACTED to spending more time talking to you.
✅ You’ll MATCH and arrange to meet up again to discover more about each other.